Introduction to book

Kathi Macias


“Will the Real Superwoman Please Stand Up?”


I’ve always been a control freak who wanted everything to run smoothly—perfectly, actually. No bumps or surprises, just—well, a “tight ship,” as they say. And somewhere along the line I got the idea that I could make that happen—if I just tried hard enough. I think it may have started when I first saw Superman on our family’s black and white TV and wondered, Is there a Superwoman somewhere? When I put that question to the adults in my life, they smiled and patted me on the head and said, “I don’t think so, dear.” So I decided to sign up for the job—a reasonable if somewhat naïve aspiration for a six-year-old, not so reasonable and way beyond naïve at twenty-six. Two decades after the birth of my Superwoman dream, I was still running as fast as I could and getting nowhere. My twenty-year-old dream was going down for the count, and I was nearly at the point of throwing in the towel—and then I met Jesus.

            What a difference! Now I could latch on to verses like “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” and “All things should be done decently and in order”—biblical affirmations of my desire to do things right, to do things efficiently and effectively, to do things with power and authority. Finally I was invincible—in Jesus, of course. Now all I needed was a godly role model and I’d be on my way.

            I began my search in earnest, reading through the Scriptures until I came to Proverbs 31. Eureka! There, at last, was the epitome of the Superwoman I’d been hoping to become since I was six years old. The perfect woman—perfect wife, perfect mother, perfect housekeeper, perfect entrepreneur—all rolled into one! Not only did her husband and children praise her, but God must have approved of her as well or He certainly wouldn’t have included her as an example in the Bible. My dream was alive and well once again! At last I would be able to “get it all together,” to win instead of fail, to run a tight ship, and to keep things under control. Life was good, and the future looked bright.

There was only one problem. I hadn’t figured on all the loose cannons rolling around the deck of my not-so-tight ship….


3 Responses to Introduction to book

  1. Nancy Maggio says:

    Looking to forward to reading the entire book in February – contents appear to be exactly what I need to read/hear!!

  2. Lucy Adams says:

    Oh the super things I have tried, and tried, and tried again. Mercy, it was just too much so I gave up and am learning to wait for God’s perfect timing.
    It brings peace – but a tiny bit of fear to. What if nothing happens?

    Now I am learning that doing nothing with Jesus, is better than doing what the world calls huge things for quick recognition that is empty.

    Looking forward to your new teaching dear Kathi Macias! God gives blessings through you – that ‘s for sure!!

  3. Miriam Jacob says:


    Every day is Christmas when you have the kind of mind,
    That stores up all the goodness and the sweetness it can find.
    When you don’t need an occasion, to spread a bit of cheer,
    But just keep on a-giving, of yourself throughout the year.

    Every day is Christmas, with a gaily wrapped surprise,
    When you’ve learned to see the friendship, in someone else’s eyes.
    When you try a little harder, and complain a little less,
    Holding fast to all the fervor of the faith that you possess.

    Every day is Christmas, when you’ve found that you can be
    More concerned with words like “you” and less with “I” and “me.”
    When it’s fun to do a favor, and to lend a helping hand,
    When being understood means less, than when you understand.

    Every day is Christmas, with a beauty deeply cast,
    When you find it doesn’t matter, if you’re first or if you’re last.
    When you can face your conscience, and be glad of what you are,
    Then every day is Christmas, with a stable and a star.

    – Author Unknown

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